Women who were forced to give their babies up for adoption have made an urgent plea for help finding out what happened to their children.
Campaigners said the words in an apology made by the Scottish Government last year “lose their worth every day” without measures to help victims of the “ongoing injustice”.
It comes a year after former first minister Nicola Sturgeon delivered an official apology in the Scottish Parliament to those who have been affected by historic forced adoption policies.
The recognition was the first formal apology in the UK to tens of thousands of unmarried mothers “shamed” and “coerced” into having their babies adopted.
Group Movement for an Adoption Apology sent a letter and knitted baby bootees to over 60 MSPs urging them to back the campaign.
Jeannot Farmer warns time is running out for families.
She told STV News: “We chose to put out a statement expressing concern that people are still passing away not knowing what happened to their children.
“The pain associated with that is severe.
“I know what it was like to find my son after 31 years – and how every birthday was worse than the last one not knowing where he was.
“I can’t imagine that being doubled. We have friends in that situation.
STV News“Living with the stigma all of those years is very difficult. But the stigma is nothing compared to the loss of your child.”
Jeannot was one of thousands of women forced to give up her baby for adoption.
At the age of 22, she gave birth to a boy while she was still a fourth year university student.
Despite having explored options with social services, she did not want to give up her son.
However, she was told while she was in hospital that her baby would be put up for adoption.
“Sometimes I go back to the apology to remember what was said. Words like ‘historic injustice’ are meaningful and important. What happened was cruel,” she said.
“That day, the stigma and disgrace of giving my baby up for adoption was removed from me. Now I don’t have anyone thinking I have submitted my child for adoption voluntarily. That was done to me.
“My child was not taken, not given.”
It is estimated around 60,000 women in Scotland were forced to give up their babies throughout the 1950s, 1960s and 1970s.
Hundreds of thousands of children were given up for adoption between 1949 and 1976 across the UK, at a time when unmarried mothers were often rejected by their families and ostracised by society.
Adoptions were generally handled through agencies run by the Church of England, the Roman Catholic Church and the Salvation Army.
“What you’ll find is most mothers it happened to don’t really know what happened to them,” Jeannot said.
“We had this idea mothers giving babies up for adoption analysed the risks and benefits of keeping or giving them up, then came up with a rational decision. That happened to no one.
“A far more common story is the mothers gave birth, were sent to another room to hold the baby for a minute, then that baby was gone and never seen again.”
The group Movement for an Adoption Apology made a number of recommendations, such as councils delivering trauma-informed counselling services; easier birth record access; reunion services and formal apologies from institutions which administered services that resulted in coerced or forced adoption.
But campaigners insist measures discussed in the Parliament on that day have “failed to emerge”.
While work is currently underway to deliver funding for peer-support services, Jeannot said more work must be done to allow victims to access records.
The system is already in place in states across Australia, where around 250,000 are estimated to have been affected by the practice.
Jeannot said thousands risk being left with unanswered questions about their identity without the government taking action.
“It’s incredibly urgent,” Jeannot said. “People are dying.
“People should be allowed to know the name of the person they have lost and find out if they might still be alive.
“We are losing the opportunity to pass on important information to our families and pass on a legacy for their relatives.
“Those questions, the hurt and the grief does not end with the passing of the father and the mother. Those ripples extend beyond.
“It’s also about passing on medical information; if a mother, sister or aunt has breast cancer, there is no way to tell a daughter who was adopted to get tested for the gene.
“It’s about what the children inherit too; ‘why do I have that shape of my nose?’ ‘Why am I good at art?’ People want to know these things.”
Jeannot said that it is important to remember mothers and adoptees reserve the right to refuse contact.
She added: “People have a right to privacy, but people also have a right to information. It’s about a balance in-between those two things.
“But if our children had been taken by a random stranger, no one would question our right to know who they are.
“That’s what happened to our children who were taken. We didn’t give them away.”
Marking the anniversary Natalie Don, Minister for Children, Young People and Keeping the Promise said:
“I acknowledge the immense pain and suffering that adoptees, mothers and families have endured as a result of these unjust practices. Addressing the harms caused remains a priority for this Government.
“We are establishing a series of lived experience sessions on historic forced adoption, to be facilitated by the Scottish Government’s Principal Psychological Adviser.
“These sessions will explore collaborative solutions and will discuss what form of support is needed to address the emotional and psychological impact of historic forced adoption for adoptees, mothers and families.
“We are also exploring what more we can do to ensure people affected by historic forced adoption are able to easily access the right information and support when they need it.
“This includes working with both the National Records of Scotland and Scottish Court and Tribunals Service in order to assist people with the practical aspects of accessing records, as well as signposting to further support.
“We continue to fund the charity, Health in Mind, to provide specialist support through peer support groups. Monthly peer support sessions are now being held for mothers and an adoptees group will begin shortly.”
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